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Wednesday, August 10, 2005

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“The Body Consciousness as an Indicator”

“Child Custody Case”

“How Do You Practice Trust?”

Participants: Mary (Michael) and Axel (Ricarro).

(Elias’ arrival time is 14 seconds.)

ELIAS: Good afternoon!

AXEL: Elias, hello!

ELIAS: Ha ha! Welcome, my friend.

AXEL: Thank you. It is good to hear your voice.

ELIAS: And you also. And what shall we discuss?

AXEL: I just said to Mary I was very worried about the upcoming hearing at court and different things, but now I find myself without having so many issues actually, I think. Let me start with some things that friends have for us. Julie is asking about her low blood sugar and she’s been having headaches recently. She is not sure what the communication is, and she’s wondering if you could enlighten her on this a little bit or give her a full direction where to turn her attention in relation to this.

ELIAS: Very well. First of all, I shall express what is most important is to be genuinely paying attention to herself in all that she engages, not to be denying herself in ANY situation. In this, it is a communication to be paying attention to how what she is doing is affecting of her physical body consciousness. This is a manner in which she is presenting to herself a method, so to speak, to genuinely be paying attention. For, she is creating a situation with the physical body consciousness that necessitates paying attention – not merely paying attention to the physical body or what is occurring within the physical body, but incorporating what is occurring within the physical body as a signal that she is not paying attention to what she is actually doing. The body consciousness is acting as a signal, as an indicator. Therefore, if she is not paying attention to actually nurturing herself, her body consciousness begins to respond.

Therefore, if she denies herself certain elements of relaxing or resting, or if she is not paying attention to herself first and is projecting her attention to situations or other individuals before herself, her body consciousness also responds. Therefore, it is generating these signals as a means to gain her attention to be continuously generating attention to self first and attention outside of self second.

AXEL: Okay, I think that’s very clear. I understand. It’s always easy with other people! (Elias laughs) Good.

KC, she’s really funny. I have to agree with this impression. It is so simple that it cannot be not true. (Elias laughs) You had told KC that a newborn baby this spring whose father is somebody working in the same company as I do but he based in Tokyo, Japan, this baby, called Masahiko, is an essence which is fragmented from KC, Khadija and I, and KC was wondering what the essence name might be. We were playing around with different names, and I was suggesting, without thinking this may be reasonable, simply a combination of the essence names of the three of us: Ricarro and Marnia and Nanaiis. I came up with Marina. KC is asking about the essence name of the baby.

ELIAS: Ha ha! And you are expressing doubt as to your impression?

AXEL: Yes, right. (Both laugh)

ELIAS: And I shall confirm your impression.

AXEL: Oh, my gosh! And KC thinks this individual is soft and emotional and Ilda belonging.

ELIAS: And your impression?

AXEL: Yes, and essence family Sumafi.

ELIAS: Correct.

AXEL: I was joking and I said to KC that she is doing some voodoo, and of course, KC says maybe we have a shared focus in New Orleans engaging voodoo practices!

ELIAS: Which I shall also confirm. (Both laugh) I may express to you, I am viewing that you are incorporating considerable fun in this interaction.

AXEL: In New Orleans?

ELIAS: And now! Generating significant amusement. (Laughs)

AXEL: But the funniest one is the following question. KC’s nephew, Brian, essence name Darby, has a doctor, and this doctor is called Michael Elias Mawad. Now, this nephew Brian is calling his mother “Ma.” KC is suggesting this essence may be fragmented from Michael, Elias and Eazon.

ELIAS: Ah! I may commend you on your creativity. Yes.

AXEL: I can’t believe this is so simple. This is so, so simple that I want to just, you know, wipe it away. This is too simple. (Elias laughs)

ELIAS: But this is...

AXEL: KC says, “I also want to know if the cloud I saw on the way to Chicago was an energy of Arduin, and was the cloud M.J., essence name Eazon, and I saw yesterday in month of August the same, and did M.J. connect with the focus she has in the flying city?”

ELIAS: Yes, in the imagery that each of them has created themselves, yes.

AXEL: Also, I should tell you thank you for your energy with KC, and she says that she has been finding that reality within her beliefs and feeling how we are not eliminating, and she is offering her greetings and all her colors.

ELIAS: Yes, and you may express the same to her from myself.

AXEL: Okay, I will. She is joking that she is so much there with me that I may create her solid at any moment – which I do not believe. (Both laugh)

ELIAS: It is possible. Ha ha ha!

AXEL: Possible but not probable. (Both laugh)

Now, as you are aware, I have presented myself with another great challenge in relation to my ex-wife and my son, in that she has decided to move away from Germany to another country, which she did ten days ago. I don’t want my son to stay with her there. I want Lucas to keep on staying here, in this city with me, and continue in his familiar surroundings with his friends and school and daycare center so on. There was seemingly no way we could reconcile ourselves or find any agreement. I was perceiving it pretty much as a either-or situation, and I made an application to court. We got into custody, and that’s the situation. I was just wondering, first of all, in general how would you assess my energy in relation to this issue? My assessment is that I am not opposing, frankly, so very much, or at least I have moved into a state where I’m no longer opposing so very much. Would you agree with that?

ELIAS: Yes, and I would express to you an acknowledgment of your awareness of yourself and your energy, and acknowledge also, in that awareness, that you are accomplishing in movement into not opposing.

Let me also express another factor to you that may also be helpful to you in continuing to not oppose and to generate an energy of cooperation in which you may more easily accomplish what you want. That factor is the small one himself. For he is also creating his reality, and he does incorporate input in this situation. Although the other individual may have transported him to another country, he also incorporates a significant influence in what he shall participate in with her and what he shall not. Therefore, that being another factor, that may also influence the situation in another manner. Therefore, it is not as quite black-and-white as it may appear.

AXEL: And what is Lucas’ preference?

ELIAS: I may express to you, presently it is a combination of expressions and experiences. There is one element of him which is perceiving this action as somewhat of an adventure, a new experience and somewhat of a new adventure. But there is also another element of him that strongly aligns with familiarity and expresses a comfort and somewhat of what you would term to be a security in familiarity. Therefore, that, being the stronger expression within him, shall eventually override the new adventure.

AXEL: That’s what you think at the moment?

ELIAS: That is the energy that he is projecting.

AXEL: At this moment.


AXEL: I see. Of course, I wanted to ask you – it sounds like a crystal ball question, but not really, if I pose the question like this – what energy am I generating in relation to this upcoming decision in court at the moment, my direction? Something like that.

ELIAS: Presently, as you are aware, you are expressing some opposition. Not tremendous, but you are expressing some opposition to the other individual. You are expressing an element of disappointment and frustration, which is generating some element of opposition. But what is significant in this is that you are also aware. Therefore, you do incorporate the ability to stop generating that opposition and express patience. For in that, you may continue to express what you want but not be generating opposition, expressing an energy of cooperation and also allowance, which is the patience, and in that allowance, recognizing that there are other factors in play and that it is not as black-and-white as it may initially appear, and therefore generating an allowance for other elements to factor into this situation – the most significant of which is the small one himself.

AXEL: Yes, and it’s not the judge. Thank you.

ELIAS: I may express to you, my friend, great encouragement, for regardless of what is generated in this interaction with your court, that in actuality, in your terms, is not the final decision. The most significant factor is the small one, and he shall actually determine how the outcome shall be.

AXEL: In a way that I might not think of at the moment.

ELIAS: Correct. But be encouraged, for the element of himself that is strongest or the most strongly expressed is that that gravitates to familiarity and comfort.

AXEL: That sounds like I will lose, so to speak, in court, but in some way that I can’t imagine now, Lucas will return to Düsseldorf anyway.

ELIAS: That is a strong potential, although I am not expressing to you that it is a strong potential that you shall lose in court, in your terms. That, in this present now, may be generated in either direction. There is no stronger potential in this present now.

AXEL: Regarding the court?

ELIAS: Correct, but regardless of what decision is expressed with the court, that may be altered, and there is a tremendous potential that it shall be altered by the small one himself.

Let me express to you in a hypothetical scenario, even if you generate a favorable decision, the decision that you want with the court, there continues to be the variable of the small one, and remember, presently he is viewing this experience as a new adventure. Therefore, he may choose temporarily to accompany the other individual and eventually return to his familiar comfort with you. Therefore in either direction, whatever occurs, whatever is chosen and whatever is created in association with your court, in actuality incorporates little bearing upon the actual situation, for it is more a matter of the small one and what he is creating and what direction he chooses. The more you generate cooperation and the more you do not generate opposition, the more you shall influence the situation to move in the direction that you want.

AXEL: I’m thinking that if he returns here, it will be with his mother again.

ELIAS: That is a possibility. I may express to you, my friend, there are many possibilities that can occur. It actually is not a black-and-white situation.

AXEL: Yep. We don’t have enough imagination. (Both laugh)

ELIAS: And it matters not, for he incorporates enough imagination, and you may be surprised. (Laughs)

AXEL: Thank you very much for that.

ELIAS: You are welcome.

AXEL: The strong allergic reactions that I had recently – I believe they were in a sense triggered by the pills that I have been taking recently – but the real reason for it is to remind me of when I oppose.


AXEL: There is something I wanted to mention to you. I realized that sometimes I make things a little bit hard for myself, because I thought I had to follow very diligently all the advice that you are giving about noticing communications or what I’m doing, not opposing, and I must be aware of my presence and so on, which finally moves me into a certain tension and analyzation mode. But sometimes I completely forget to reconsider what I want in a moment! (Both laugh) So I came up with a simple method, that I only notice and relax, just notice and that’s it, enough, done. Sometimes if I’m not feeling good in any given situation, I may spend a thought on what I’d rather want in this moment and think to remind myself that there are choices, even though because of my lack of imagination I don’t know the details, and I can trust that things will be fine. That is my simple method I have come up with.

ELIAS: I am quite acknowledging of you, my friend, for this is the point – not to be complicating but to generate and remember that simplicity. It is not necessary to be working continuously with yourself and generating such effort. It is much easier to generate simplicity.

AXEL: That’s simply trusting that things will work out somehow, and that reminded me that sometimes you suggest to people to practice trust. I’m wondering, how can you practice trust?

ELIAS: By paying attention to what you accomplish, acknowledging yourself in your accomplishments, acknowledging what you have and what you have accomplished, rather than continuously projecting and speculating and anticipating and generating confusion or concentrating upon what you have not done or what you have not accomplished or what you do not have. Rather than concentrating your attention upon lack, you may practice trust by acknowledging what you have and what you have accomplished.

AXEL: That’s a little bit what I recently did by appreciating myself a couple of times each day. You made the suggestion in the Chicago group session to someone else, and it was posted on the message board. I thought it was a fine idea, and that I’m going to try this.

ELIAS: Yes. And it also significantly alters your energy. I may also express to you, my friend, it is exceptionally difficult to be opposing if you are appreciating.

AXEL: Yes. Thank you.

ELIAS: You are very welcome.

AXEL: Elias, I wanted to speak a little about Khadija once again. I have lately not felt her presence so very much like before. It’s happened one time already, I think in April for a short time framework. I am thinking that this is because I am more being with myself oftentimes currently, at the exclusion of outside or other influences, and that I will reestablish this connection later on again.

ELIAS: Yes. I am in agreement.

AXEL: Would you tell me a little bit about where Khadija is now and what she is doing?

ELIAS: Continuing to be generating an objective awareness and some objective imagery, but also moving somewhat into the action of transition – not fully but slightly moving into the action of transition. This action may be generated with this individual slowly, for she is beginning to notice some of the strengths of some of her beliefs and is somewhat merely evaluating these beliefs.

It is a different action from that which you generate within physical focus, for they are not actually as affecting of her. Therefore, her evaluation of them is much more neutral. It is presently being expressed as somewhat of a curiosity and a fascination, somewhat of a revelation that she incorporates some of the beliefs that she does, but not, as I have stated, in a manner in which they are actually affecting of her. She is merely generating the beginnings of transition in being aware of them and generating somewhat of a fascination with how they are expressed and what they are and how they were influencing.

AXEL: I think Khadija, although she was in many respects a very open and tremendously accepting person, there were a few aspects of her that were influenced by very strong beliefs.


AXEL: I could tell that they were extreme, some extremes in her between acceptance and nonacceptance.


AXEL: While the acceptance was more in proportion, in my opinion, but there were some elements in her that constituted almost insurmountable challenges.

ELIAS: Yes, I am aware.

Now; those are not, as I have stated, affecting of her now, but she is generating an awareness of these beliefs and how influencing and how affecting they were within physical focus, which is not actually surprising to her but it is somewhat fascinating.

AXEL: Yes. Thank you, Elias.

ELIAS: You are very welcome, my friend.

AXEL: Well, now we’re through the session by two-thirds, and I have basically said what I wanted to say. I’m wondering if we might stop at this point. Is that fine with you?

ELIAS: Yes, and I shall be anticipating our next discussion.

AXEL: Me too. Thank you very much, Elias.

ELIAS: You are quite welcome, my dear friend. I express great acknowledgment to you and great encouragement. Remember, allow yourself to relax and generate cooperation and be encouraged, for all is not what it may appear to be. (Chuckles) I express to you, as always, tremendous affection and my appreciation. Remember, I am always with you.

AXEL: Thank you.

ELIAS: To you, in great friendship, au revoir.

AXEL: Bye.

Elias departs after 40 minutes.

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